Today, my boyfriends cousin said that me and my boyfriend need to sleep together. Can you see how confusing that might be? We've been dating for almost 4 months. Amazing? I know. I really hope it really doesn't end. I can honestly say that I love him. especially because of how many times I've dated. That's him in my profile picture. Him me and my baby sister. That was before I dyed my hair and pierced my lip though.
His name is William.
When I see him, my heart stops. He's my world. His eyes are a amazingly beautiful shade of brown. His smile, well that's contagious! I wonder if he ever thinks about me when he's home... I hope so. Do you guys think we should sleep together? Only after 4 months? I don't know that answer for myself. Can you please help me figure it out? It would mean the world to me. Well, I'm going to go blog on my other blogs.
Bye!
Dear LuaRissaAk,
ReplyDeleteMy first question is, What does William think about all this? Is he pressuring you to sleep with him?
Second, I think that this decision should be made by you and you alone. If you do sleep with this guy, let it be because you want to, not because someone said you should.
And third, if you will allow me to speak plainly, do you know the facts about sex before marriage? Did you know that there is no form of birth control that works 100% of the time? Did you know that the suicide rate is higher in women that have had premarital sex than in those who waited until marriage? Did you know that even after you sleep with someone, that's no guarantee that they'll stay with you?
I hope you found my advice useful, and I hope I didn't make you angry, but I think you need to know the facts before you make a decision like this.
Best of luck,
- Scarlet
Scarlet,
ReplyDeleteI didnt sleep with him for many reasons. I left him after five months. I noticed that I was pretending we had this great relatiionship and he was the nicest ever but people kept telling me I was wrong. I finally opened my eyes and realized how badly he was treating me. Ive also learned, Im a lesbian. I do know that about Birth control. I am the one that put myself on birth control and because they all have there risk I wanted to know about every single kind out there so I ended up doing lots of learning before I made my mind up. I have taken your comment and opinion to mind and No i would never be mad at someone for simpily speaking their opinion and worries out loud. Thanks for caring enough to comment.
Love,
Luarissa.